I see ugly guys dating gorgeous, "hot" women all the time. I, too, am not very attractive but I'm not doing well with the ladies. What's their secret?
09.06.2025 07:26
Well, for one, you may not see these men as attractive because you may be a heterosexual male or you may see the women as overly attractive because they are out of your league… Either way it doesn’t matter too much.
Next, there are a variety of reasons why women don’t always go for the hottest guy. We are all attracted to different things. Sure, there must be some physical attraction, but aside from that there are many other things.
I have personally never liked men who show-off too much or that make everything about themselves. They seem too into themselves. Of course, there are different degrees and ways of showing off. Some may be more acceptable and more pleasant than others. This is definitely a question that will be different from person to person.
I’ll tell you something about my brother that is very attractive that I’ve rarely seen other men do. And mind you, he is my brother… He will compliment women from the most unattractive to the prettiest one and mean each word he says. This is a very beautiful quality that he possesses and I imagine that if I see it, all women do as well.
Some men are simply very charismatic and charming. My brother is this way. He is not the most attractive man out there but I promise you he will walk out with a girl or two out of any party or event or whatever. Sometimes I think that perhaps he got blessed this way due to all the physical and emotional abuse that our mom made us endure.
He is an average looking man with a heart of gold! 💛